Archive for January, 2006

Jan
22

A Letter From a Friend

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Gina and David at ArrowheadToday I received such a sweet note from Gina my friend from USC that I had to post it. We have been in the nurse anesthesia program now for about a year and a half together and in the last couple of months have not seen much of each other. All of the students are scattered about doing specialty clinical rotations currently and only get together for Journal club once a month.

At one point last year Gina and I were together at Arrowhead Regional Medical center and we became quite close.

Here is her note:

David,

Got your message today and sorry I missed your call. I’m just now trying to get my Medatrax caught up for the week. Wondering how you’re doing these days. It is strange not seeing one another every week, but that is progress, isn’t it? We’re very close to the finish line, or so it seems. How are things going in OB? Any problems getting your numbers? Dr. Gold seems to think that is a concern there. I was looking over the schedule to see where you are and it appears as though you have a nice few months ahead of you. Of course that last month at LAC is going to kill you. You know what I say; better you than me!!

Children’s is worlds better than I had imagined. It is clean and efficient, much like Arrowhead, which you will like. The attendings are for the most part, into teaching. The morning conferences and Grand Rounds are a nice review. The hours are not as long as I thought. The anesthesia is simple and it is not a rotation I would recommend trying to get too fancy with. Of course my objectives for the rotation are very simple; 1) don’t kill anyone and; 2) get to the point where I am reasonably comfortable when a baby or child shows up in my OR. And to that end, I think I’m getting there. It’s good and important experience. Of course the bad side is that you are dealing with kids who have really horrible diseases, who endure pain daily, who are scared when you take them away from mommy, and who wake up crying. The parents are weary and desperate. My heart is broken daily. I hug my son a bit tighter these days when I get home.

Tell me how you are doing and where your thoughts are these days. Any thoughts about where to work when all this craziness is done?

I look forward to seeing you Monday, my dear friend. Be well.

Gina

So there you have it! Gina would probably laugh out loud if she knew that I posted her letter she is such a stickler for details. One thing is abundantly clear – she is a great soul. I did reply to her mail and include it here for historical purposes.

Gina,

Thank you for the great update. You are a great soul and appreciated very much. Your wisdom comes through everything you say. Its like the old saying about the trees and the forest except that no matter what you do I see the forest of wisdom in who you are. Maybe I am just an old philosophical fool but it makes sense to me anyway.

For the latest on me you can always check out my revised web site the “Average Man” at the new URL http://averageman.org/

You may get a kick out of this site actually. Many have asked me why I chose the moniker of the Average Man. When I try to answer the question the topic of the “Ordinary” man always comes up when I am thinking of “Exceptional” man – used in the universal sense. When they are thinking of “Ordinary” I am thinking of the potential that is in every one of us just waiting to be exposed. Most people don’t get it but those that do are the ones I speak to. As an example, I did a search in Google for an “Average Man” and came up with a site for Gandhi in which I found this:

Mahatma Gandhi was an average man – at least, that is how he regarded himself. He laid no claim to be either a saint or a mahatma. He declared with humility:

“I claim to be no more than an average man with less than average ability. Nor can I claim any special merit for such non-violence or continence as I have been able to reach with laborious research. I have not the shadow of a doubt that any man or woman can achieve what I have, if he or she would make the same effort and cultivate the same hope and faith. Work without faith is like an attempt to reach the bottom of a bottomless pit.”

These words were not the expression of a pretentious modesty. They reflected Gandhi’s fundamental conviction that each one of us can achieve that which he had achieved – and more. For Gandhi, life was a permanent experiment with truth. He walked his talk – and where his walk did not coincide with his talk, he changed either his walk or his talk.

“I claim to be a simple individual liable to err like any other fellow mortal. I own, however, that I have humility enough in me to confess my errors and to retrace my steps. I own that I have an immovable faith in God and His goodness and unconsumable passion for truth and love. But, is that not what every person has latent in him?”

So Gina dear friend maybe you will be able to understand what it is to be an Average Man and know who I am. Most likely due to the fact that you certainly have touched the center of your own latent potential. Certainly I claim no greatness just the average goodness that is in us all.

Your friend David.

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Jan
16

MLK Bike Ride To Seal Beach

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Today is Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day and is celebrated in many ways. Some of us have to work but for those that are students and County or government employees the day is ours to do with as we please. “Let Freedom Ring” is my slogan today which are the last lines of the MLK great speech “I have a dream“. Today during our celebration and acknowledgement of the great achievements in civil liberties here in the United States we must be mindful that there are still pockets of bigotry and racism. Read the speech, “I have a dream” and think of the barriers to those dreams that must be overcome for all of us. In the words of Martin Luther King Jr. delivered on the steps at the Lincoln Memorial in Washington D.C. on August 28, 1963.

Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of captivity. But one hundred years later, we must face the tragic fact that the Negro is still not free.

One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languishing in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land.

So we have come here today to dramatize an appalling condition. In a sense we have come to our nation’s capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir.

This note was a promise that all men would be guaranteed the inalienable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check which has come back marked “insufficient funds.” But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation.

So we have come to cash this check — a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice. We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to open the doors of opportunity to all of God’s children. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quick-sands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood.

It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment and to underestimate the determination of the Negro. This sweltering summer of the Negro’s legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. Nineteen sixty-three is not an end, but a beginning. Those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual. There will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights.

The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges. But there is something that I must say to my people who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice. In the process of gaining our rightful place we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred.

We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. we must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force.

The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny and their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom.

We cannot walk alone. And as we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall march ahead. We cannot turn back. There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, “When will you be satisfied?” we can never be satisfied as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the Negro’s basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until justice rolls down like waters and righteousness like a mighty stream.

I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow cells. Some of you have come from areas where your quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive.

Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed. Let us not wallow in the valley of despair. I say to you today, my friends, that in spite of the difficulties and frustrations of the moment, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.

I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: “We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal.” I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave-owners will be able to sit down together at a table of brotherhood. I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a desert state, sweltering with the heat of injustice and oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice. I have a dream that my four children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. I have a dream today.

I have a dream that one day the state of Alabama, whose governor’s lips are presently dripping with the words of interposition and nullification, will be transformed into a situation where little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls and walk together as sisters and brothers. I have a dream today. I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight, and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together. This is our hope. This is the faith with which I return to the South. With this faith we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.

This will be the day when all of God’s children will be able to sing with a new meaning, “My country, ’tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the pilgrim’s pride, from every mountainside, let freedom ring.” And if America is to be a great nation, this must become true. So let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire. Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York. Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania! Let freedom ring from the snowcapped Rockies of Colorado! Let freedom ring from the curvaceous peaks of California! But not only that; let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia! Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee! Let freedom ring from every hill and every molehill of Mississippi. From every mountainside, let freedom ring.

When we let freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God’s children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, “Free at last! free at last! thank God Almighty, we are free at last!”

Kimball and DavidSo with those words ringing in our ears let us celebrate the day in true freedom and go for a bicycle ride to Seal Beach! The bike riders that meet regularly at Stan’s bicycle Shop in Monrovia left this morning for a leisurely ride to Seal Beach and lunch at an Italian Bistro. The morning started nippy against the San Gabriel Mountains with clear crisp air numbing our ears. We started when the light was blue before the sun rose too much in the sky to warm the earth and give the hills that warm glow that comes in the afternoon.

Stan and DaveWhat is a ride along the bike path that boarders the Interstate 605 without a few flat tires. We did not get far before the upswept glass got Dave’s back tire. Stan peddled back to help fix the flat and before you know it we were back at it going west to the Pacific Ocean. The bicycle trail starts at the foot of the Azusa pass or Highway 39 and travels across Los Angeles to the Beach 40 miles to the west. The ride on the bicycle trail is for the most part flat and the leisurely pace left us time and energy for conversation. We had an added benefit today because Kimball was running a sag wagon for the weak and worthless. Kimball has been down with a cold and is laying off the bike until later this week he tell us. Kimball has missed us so much that he came along with his truck just to have lunch at the beach and drive back the wounded and lazy. I included myself in that group by the way.

lunch in Seal BeachLunch was wonderful especially the Caesar salad and split pea soup which I had. Kimball shared a Becks beer with his lunch after which we traveled east back to the mountains. A couple of us took the easy way and were back in Monrovia via the Suburban. I have a philosophy about riding long distances. Anything over 40 miles is not doing you any good and if there is a truck around for the trip back why not I say. Besides getting back for a few chores and reading necessitated the quick trip back. You see there is always a good excuse for these things. To see all of the pictures from the bicycle ride to Seal Beach go to flickr.com/

MLK day was a perfect excuse for a ride to the beach. I guess any excuse is a good one if it gets you out on the road on such a beautiful day. This is another philosophy of mine. I guess you just have to suffer with that one. In Kimball’s car was a little book that was interesting to look at during the drive home. Kimball’s copy was well read and with dog-eared pages and underlines throughout the text. “Awakening the Buddha Within” by Lama Surya Das in an interesting read. One quote stuck out on the drive home. The Lama suggests that we do not trust those who say they know the answers but to pay attention to those who are seeking the right questions.

Enjoy Martin Luther King Day!

Categories : Books, Cycling
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Recently I was searching through Amazon for reviews of the book, “Mao the untold story” by Jung Chang when I found this interview on the Amazon web site.  The book is sitting on my night stand while I finish up her first book, “Wild Swans”.  I have read the introduction and skipped through some of the chapters and can not wait to sit down with the whole thing.

The story of Mao is so interesting and central to understanding modern China.  Today the world is a different place and China is changing like all of the rest of us.  Modern China is nothing like it was 30 and 40 years ago but it is difficult to through off the past completely.

The authors of the book talk about their love for China and dedication to their home country which I appreaciate.


Q: From idea to finished book, how long did Mao: The Unknown Story take to research and write?
A: Over a decade.Q: What was your writing process like? How did you two collaborate on this project?
A: The research shook itself out by language. Jung did all the Chinese-language research, and Jon did the other languages, of which Russian was the most important, as Mao had a long-term intimate relationship with Stalin. After our research trips around the world, we would work in our separate studies in London. We would then rendezvous at lunch to exchange discoveries.Q: Do you have any thoughts about how the book is, or will be received in China? Did that play a part in your writing of the book?
A: The book is banned in China, because the current Communist regime is fiercely perpetuating the myth of Mao. Today Mao’s portrait and his corpse still dominate Tiananmen Square in the heart of Beijing, and the regime declares itself to be Mao’s heir. The government blocked the distribution of an issue of The Far Eastern Economic Review, and told the magazine’s owners, Dow Jones, that this was because that issue contained a review of our book. The regime also tore the review of our book out of The Economist magazine that was going to (very restricted) newsstands. We are not surprised that the book is banned. The regime’s attitude had no influence on how we wrote the book. We hope many copies will find their way into China.Q: What is the one thing you hope readers get from your book?
A: Mao was responsible for the deaths of well over 70 million Chinese in peacetime, and he was bent on dominating the world. As China is today emerging as an economic and military power, the world can never regard it as a benign force unless Beijing rejects Mao and all his legacies. We hope our book will help push China in this direction by telling the truth about Mao.

Breakdown of a BIG Book: 5 Things You’ll Learn from Mao: The Unknown Story
1. Mao became a Communist at the age of 27 for purely pragmatic reasons: a job and income from the Russians.2. Far from organizing the Long March in 1934, Mao was nearly left behind by his colleagues who could not stand him and had tried to oust him several times. The aim of the March was to link up with Russia to get arms. The Reds survived the March because Chiang Kai-shek let them, in a secret horse-trade for his son and heir, whom Stalin was holding hostage in Russia.3. Mao grew opium on a large scale.4. After he conquered China, Mao’s over-riding goal was to become a superpower and dominate the world: “Control the Earth,” as he put it.5. Mao caused the greatest famine in history by exporting food to Russia to buy nuclear and arms industries: 38 million people were starved and slave-driven to death in 1958-61. Mao knew exactly what was happening, saying: “half of China may well have to die.”

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Jan
14

Illegal Immigration a Crime

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Is Illegal Immigration a crime in Spain? You bet it is punishable by exportation stopping first at the local gulag for a beating. Just kidding.

A good article explaining the arbitrary process of ‘Immigration in Spain’ was written up in ZNet. It’s worth a read to see how other countries boggle the process. Actually, Spain is a very progressive country and has the most liberal immigration laws of any of the European nations. A recent article in Expatica.com discusses the future of immigration to Spain and talks about the future that the Socialist government is working for in the Spanish immigration world.

As many of you know, my son Seth has moved to Barcelona Spain and has been working for the past several months illegally! Afraid of the local law enforcement he left the country when his visa ran out and has now returned and is in the process of establishing permanent residence and obtaining a work permit. I just received this short note from him and as promised am passing it along:

Seth at Cupid'sHey guys,

This is just a quick note to let you know that I’m still alive.

I got a job so I decided to stay in Barcelona, for how long I have no idea. I just started my papers to be able to work, and yesterday I got my Spanish Social Security number, so hopefully soon I will no longer be an illegal immigrant.

I miss all of you and I will write again soon in more detail when I am not pressed for time.

Dos besos – Senor Seth

So there you have it. To see the beginning of the adventure you can do a search of the web site for “Seth” or go to ‘Seth Goes to Spain‘ or to ‘The Girls are as Cold as the Weather‘. I will keep this thread going.

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Jan
12

Average Man New Home

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The Average Man blogg has a new home with its own dedicated address here at http://averageman.org/. You can follow the further antics of an Average Man here. So you may be asking yourself right about now, ‘What is an Average Man anyway and why is that important?’

The blog will be addressing this and other great questions of exsistance in the coming months. Stay tuned to updates on ordinary things like bicycle riding, reviews of new books and other stuff the average man is interested in.

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